you gotta live hardcore to be hardcore..

the way blair looks at dan.

#someone should have let leighton in on the fact that blair doesn’t love dan

#because she clearly didn’t get that memo

posted 10 months ago via mirchoffbeau • © heartsinsync

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#dan and blair #blair waldorf #gossip girl

101 Favorite People → Leighton Meester

posted 11 months ago

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#my edits #101 favorite people #leighton meester #gossip girl #blair waldorf

So this just sort of happened. Honestly, I’m just tired of seeing people telling me and other DB fans to ‘Just get over the hotel already!’ and that ‘It happened years ago! [insert insult here]’ because I do have my reasons for not being over it.

Just because you’re over it doesn’t mean everybody else has to be.

Look, Blair has already forgiven Chuck for it. Good for her. But anyone can see that the damage that the incident caused has left her broken, still, even after 2 years. She finds it hard to trust Chuck. She finds it easy to believe in the worst in him. Most of all, she lost sight of the strong and willful woman that she once used to be because of him. This is why it’s so infuriating that people even have the nerve to call her a bitch for bringing it up. WTF. She has every right to do so because guess what? It happened, and it broke her and she’s still trying to recover from it.

If you’re someone who has managed to forgive (and forget) and let go of it, good for you or whatever. But you know what? In real life, when someone betrays your trust, when someone hurts and destroys you, sometimes it takes a week to heal… sometimes it takes a year and sometimes even more than that.

This is an important and serious issue to me. Maybe it isn’t for some and that’s why it’s so easy for them to move on from it, but it is for me and for some other people as well. Why can’t people just understand that? And it isn’t just about the hotel. It’s about everything that it stands for. The disrespect, the emotional abuse… he took her self-worth and he sucked the strong and powerful woman right out of her. I can’t stand that, and I can’t stand a relationship like that. To me, it’s not right and it never will be.

I honestly don’t understand how anybody can ship Chuck and Blair after everything, even after all the apologies because to me, they just destroy each other whenever they’re together… sometimes sooner, sometimes later but it always happens one way or another. But I do understand that not everyone sees things the way I do. Maybe some people interpret these events and these scenes differently, and though I can’t see it their way no matter how hard I try, I at least have the decency to respect that they have a different perspective than I do. I wish others can find it in their hearts to respect my opinion as I do theirs.

I just dont understand why the writers had to have blair remind everyone of all of chucks wrongdoings OVER AND OVER AND OVER if they were just gonna put them back together at the end of the season. I mean, it really makes zero sense. I guess Josh knows that CBers are SO INTENSE and will ship regardless but it seems really pointless to build DB up so much and bash CB constantly just to reverse everything in one episode.